There鈥檚 Nothing Wrong with Teenage Girls. But There鈥檚 Something Wrong With Us.
This story is a continuation of the 国产视频 Weekly鈥檚 Women鈥檚 History Month edition.
High school sucked. It was a moment of transition, when almost every teenager around me was just as clueless as the next one; the adults in my life didn鈥檛 help when they told me that what I was experiencing wouldn鈥檛 really matter in the long run. At the same time as I was attempting to make ever-lengthening strides away from home, my parents seemed to want to hold on the tightest. Hormones made the simplest tasks an angsty ordeal for all involved. And for some strange reason, puberty refused to turn me into the statuesque high schoolers (admittedly played by 20-somethings) whom I had been watching on Disney Channel since I was 10. Amid all of that, I was keenly aware of one fact: Being a teenage girl was the worst thing I could be.
Nowhere was this fact clearer than in the collective vilification of the things I (and thousands of other predominantly teenage girls) loved: boy bands, the Twilight franchise, selfies, YA fiction鈥攖he list goes on. I was viscerally reminded of the shame so many girls grow up with in the recent debate over Teen Vogue鈥檚 political coverage, which shone an unflattering light on something crucial, and unnerving: There鈥檚 a problem with how we view teenage girls. 聽
If teenage girls like it, whatever it is, it usually becomes uncool, vapid, illegitimate. And that鈥檚 because we have a tendency to see teenage girls, and especially the way they express their love of something, as incoherent, over-emotional, and irrational. Meanwhile, we often assume that boys鈥 interests are carefully considered, logical choices, even for something as mundane as comic book superheroes or soccer teams (though, to be fair, there are moments when we do actually admit that teenage boys can be drooling twits). To drive home the fact of how hard it can be for teenage girls to win: When they express interest in male-dominated entertainment, such as comic books or video games, we slap the label of 鈥溾 on them.
Writing for the British political and cultural magazine The New Statesman,, 鈥淲hy are screaming girls, overcome with excitement for a group they love, considered a punch line, the pinnacle of immaturity, and something extraordinarily shameful, when the largely male, adult crowds at sporting events openly weep, bellow, paint their naked bodies in bright colours, clutch each other, and even commit physical violence due to emotion, both when their teams lose and when they win?鈥
Strange: I鈥檝e never heard of One Direction fans burning cars or destroying property, an in the aftermath of wins or losses in the sports arena.
Teen Vogue鈥檚 political coverage was largely viewed on social media as an aberration. The reactions to Lauren Duca鈥檚 prescient piece on Donald 国产视频 psychological manipulation of America ranged from baffled to belittlement. One Twitter user, 鈥淲ho would have guessed @TeenVogue might be the future of political news. Unreal coverage of the election.鈥 Another, 鈥淕o back to acne treatments.鈥
The deep-seated expectation that a women鈥檚 magazine, especially one aimed at teenage girls, couldn鈥檛 possibly cover an election cycle marked by rampant misogyny in a smart and nuanced way is not only sexist鈥攊t鈥檚 downright simple-minded. Who do you think those 鈥済rab them by the pussy鈥 comments were referring to? In a distressingly familiar double standard, Playboy can feature hard-hitting articles and interviews, but when Teen Vogue covers the Black Lives Matter movement, minds are blown.
While the influence of editor Elaine Welteroth on Teen Vogue鈥檚 political coverage cannot be underestimated (and also highlights the importance of diversity in leadership positions in media), the bewilderment associated with it points to a disheartening phenomenon: We usually don鈥檛 expect media targeting teenage girls to be intelligent. And that鈥檚 because we tend to view women鈥攅specially young women鈥攁s unreasonable, emotional, and na茂ve (all the worse when you consider that this naivet茅 is often spoken of in explicitly sexual terms).
In 2013, GQ published an article profiling the members of One Direction, the mega-popular (now defunct?) British boy band. And as we know, you can鈥檛 really write an article about a boy band without insulting their predominantly female audience. At the height of the Beatles鈥 popularity, Paul Johnson wrote that, 鈥淭hose who flock round the Beatles, who scream themselves into hysteria, whose vacant faces flicker over the TV screen, are the least fortunate of their generation, the dull, the idle, the failures.鈥
Keeping with that shining tradition, writer Jonathan Heaf stated, 鈥淏y now we all know the immense transformative power of a boy band to turn a butter-wouldn鈥檛-melt teenage girl into a rabid, knicker-wetting banshee who will tear off her own ears in hysterical fervour when presented with the objects of her fascinations.鈥 He doesn鈥檛 go so far as to call them failures, instead comparing these teenage girls to 鈥渨ild bison鈥 and 鈥渁 dark pink oil slick that howls and moans and undulates with every impish crotch-thrust from their idols鈥 plinths. Thousands of female fans caught on the cusp of their own sexual awakening.鈥 Because nothing鈥檚 as innocent as a 30-something-year-old man writing ad nauseum on the sexuality of teenage girls.
What I鈥檓 saying, I guess, is that there鈥檚 nothing wrong with the things or the way teenage girls love. But there is something deeply wrong with the rest of us, as a whole. There鈥檚 something wrong with the way we treat teenage girls, with how we telegraph, and often explicitly say, that everything they touch or think is desperately uncool and unserious.
At least, that is the message heard, whether intended or not, every time an adult bemoans the trials of raising teenage girls but not boys. That is the message heard when journalists express surprise at the fact that sharp, well-argued pieces can exist alongside pieces on what happens when you put lipstick under a microscope. Teenage girls are nuanced, complicated human beings. Indeed, they鈥檝e never been anything less.