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Imagine someone you love. Can you see their face? Would you recognize them if they stood next to you in a cafe? What if they ran up and hugged you?

For as many as , the answer is no. It doesn’t matter how much we care about someone or how long we’ve known them. We will never be able to remember their face. For those of us with severe prosopagnosia, more commonly known as face blindness, memories of people’s faces don’t exist. I can see your face, but the moment I turn away, it vanishes from my mind. Even when I look in the mirror, I don’t know my own face. When I dream or try to recall someone, there’s no sense that a face should even exist. I know it’s difficult to grasp, but for me, faces simply don’t belong in my mental image of a person.

For most people with prosopagnosia, the condition is congenital, meaning those with it are born with the disability, never having experienced even a moment when they could recognize faces. Picture a child you know walking past you without a hint of recognition or acknowledgment. What would you think? What might you say? I spent my own childhood unaware that I had the condition: I didn’t realize I had prosopagnosia until college, and it wasn’t until my twenties that I found out there was a name for it. Until that moment, I’d been labeled (and labeled myself) with a myriad of social problems. What would have been different if my family and I had the language and tools to understand what was really happening earlier, when I was a child?

Despite some attention in mainstream media—thanks, in part, to with the condition—there is not yet broad public awareness of prosopagnosia: what it is, how to diagnose it, and why it matters. This is especially true in the context of children. Face Blind UK’s Jo Livingston found that out of 800 teachers surveyed, only six had ever heard of the condition. This lack of awareness means the odds that a child with prosopagnosia will be correctly diagnosed by a parent, teacher, or pediatrician are slim to none. But the likelihood that it will have a lasting, detrimental effect on a child’s life is enormous. “There’s a lot of kids who are going under the radar,” says , Professor of Psychological and Brain Sciences at Dartmouth. “When you talk to the parents, they knew something was wrong—the child was having some difficulties—but they could never put their finger on it.”

Without an understanding of prosopagnosia and how to spot it, parents or caregivers are left at a loss. Or worse, their lack of awareness could lead to misdiagnosis. Duchaine recalls working with children mistakenly diagnosed with autism because of their face-recognition difficulties. “In fact, we think they were just prosopagnosic,” he says. “It was a false diagnosis based on their face-processing problems.”

Children with prosopagnosia often struggle with making and maintaining friendships, a particularly thorny developmental issue as they enter adolescence. As kids grow older, their struggles with face recognition can worsen and , especially in social situations. And when you have prosopagnosia, every moment in public is a social situation. As a prosopagnosic teenager, trying to figure out who my friends were when I walked down my school’s hall or attended a party left me emotionally drained. To parents and teachers, this behavior may appear as a personality issue, not a neurodevelopmental difference. Children with prosopagnosia may be labeled “oppositional,” “problematic,” or, as I was, “aloof.”

Raising awareness among educators, physicians, and parents is critical to give children with prosopagnosia what all of us long for: belonging and connection. Early recognition of prosopagnosia similarly opens doors to self-awareness, peer accommodation, and support—three critical factors for navigating the condition. Diagnosis can be challenging, though, due to prosopagnosia’s subtlety. For example, if you asked five-year-old me whether I “saw faces,” I might have confidently said yes. But seeing facial features isn’t the same as remembering them. I could describe my own face—blue eyes, blonde hair—but that description is simply general facts, words I’ve memorized, not images I retain.

For parents and caregivers seeking to identify prosopagnosia, I offer three signs to watch out for:

1. Delayed recognition: Does the child hesitate when recognizing familiar people in unexpected settings (e.g., a grocery store)? Similarly, is their recognition of a familiar person inconsistent?
2. Facial recall: Ask the child to describe a familiar face. Do they list basic facts, or do they offer vivid details that would help distinguish that face from similar ones?
3. Social challenges: If a setting involves numerous people, be attentive to signs of social anxiety or withdrawal in your child.

Some diagnostic tools have also been developed, including one specifically for children, the (CFMT-C). For teenagers, the might be considered.

Early diagnosis is just one way to boost awareness of the disability and support those struggling to navigate it. We also need to share stories.

Parents of prosopagnosic children might encourage their kids to speak about their experiences in schools or workshops. Writers of children’s books or young adult novels might consider adding characters with prosopagnosia into their storylines. Imagine if Harry Potter’s early encounter with Voldemort left him unable to recognize faces! The core story would remain unchanged, but this layer of complexity could raise awareness and build empathy for others who experience the world in this way. Readers would see the condition as a real challenge, not just a quirky trait or personality flaw.

Identifying prosopagnosia early in life can lead to greater self-awareness and . With more understanding, children with this condition don’t have to feel isolated or misunderstood. It takes only one adult to help them feel seen in a world where every face is a puzzle they can’t solve.